How to create Balance and Harmony

Here at the communal house we have regular unexpected discussions on a vast array of topics. This morning we all discovered together an epiphany to one of life's dilemmas. which was totally unexpected but glorious and lead to the synapses firing.

At present we are seeking a fourth member to the house and we were discussing why the numerous ones that had come previously had not worked.

We then decided to look at our own characteristics and behaviours and to give these a structural model. This structure would be formed on the basis of a family unit. This would help us to understand why it was working with the three of us and not others.

So the other housemates and i looked at our characteristics and gave each one of us a title fitting to our personalities.

Therefore in the house we slowly began to understand that in the family structure so far, we have these types of characteristics: Age or sex has no relevance here.

• Mother
• Father
• Grandmother

Once we understood this, we asked what was missing. We all came to the conclusion that we did not want a person with childlike characteristics,  this was the behavioural qualities of all the other housemates and that had not worked.

We now understood why the fourth one had never worked.

Our journey now will help us seek a Grandfather, Auntie, Uncle type of person and so we may find the fourth that fits.

We then moved onto using this analogy in other aspects of our lives and this gave us greater insight into why other forms of relationships had not worked in our past.

For instant not all of us understood or gave a structure to our own characteristics and behaviours or we were confused on which label we were and so the journey began.

From a child, we can still have any characteristics of any model, for instance, i knew from being around the teenager stage, that i always ended up playing the Motherly role within my family, that travelled with me throughout my life. It progressed and i made mistakes along the way, but slowly i discovered that it was the correct role for my sole and now sits well with me.

For others, people may have given you roles, that do not sit well with your own innate characteristics, and so you struggle through life, without realising.

 So you could be playing the Motherly role, and that is what you want to be, yet your true characteristics are fatherly. Once you identify your role and truly accept it, happiness will come as will a greater level of understanding to your own needs and balance.

Through this epiphany, i now realise that most of my past relationships apart from one have been with a child because my Motherly characteristics attracts that, however in order to find true happiness and contentment i need to find a person with Fatherly qualities, that knows their role and are content with it and so my awakened journey begins. Eurekaaaaa.

Now is the time to bring total Balance and Harmony to my life and hopefully to yours.

So what does your own innate characteristics define you as? and your journey begins........

Love, Light and Adventures

Katrina xx